mimsy:and short hair. I do wear a baby blue/ black jacket and a baby blue nolan N30 as I'm wary of looking too blokey. I'm just not one of those girly girl types, I s'pose, too high maintenance for me, I have more to do in my mornings than get my hair right just to have it squashed under the Nolan, although I have to say, a full-face helmet is a bugger on your makeup.
I have a number 2 blade all over every 4 weeks so my hair is very short. This does help with helmet hair! I don't wear any make up, couldn't be bothered either.
I worked with psychological disturbed adolescents so I can understand where you are coming from with the voice.
In the forty odd years that I have known my gay friends I suppose I have met three or four masculine ladies. Not the typical gay lady.
I am very comfortable in my own skin, could be lots of psych training (part of my profession) but I don't think so as this is the way I have always been.
Many put you in this category that because you ride a bike or a scoot.
Some of my gear is masculine and this works to my advantage if I am harassed by tin tops, they think it's a guy